Question from Jane: How old were you when you
gave your first BJ and did you like it?
Question from Mike: Where was the most exciting place you've ever given
head (outside of the bedroom or home)?
A: I think Ive given my most daring blowjobs at school! I was madly
in love with a boy the same age as myself. We were both 13 and still virgins.
He was either shy or very respectful and touched my breast only if I asked
him to and he only dared put his hands in my pants if I guided them there!
So we just had a little petting experience and nothing too serious had
happened up to that point.
Then one day I stumbled across some Beta or Video 2000 videotapes in my
parents bedroom and watched them secretly while they were away.
I was fascinated by what I saw and particularly impressed by a woman who
deep throated a huge cock and begged the man to let her swallow. It totally
turned me on even though I wasnt really sure why that would be physically
appealing to her or him. Anyway, it fuelled my curiosity and I decided
to expand my sexual horizon by giving my first blowjob during our next
scheduled french-kissing and petting session.
As it turned out this would happen in a classroom. I had very protective
parents who wouldnt let me run around unattended at that age and
my boyfriend and I had to do most of the talking and experimenting after
school. There was never a lot of time for us and we never experienced
the comfort of lying in bed together. Even though wed been going
out for almost two years. Classrooms happened to be the only refuge we
could find. So I took out his penis and told him to keep listening for
footsteps outside, just in case cleaning personnel or teachers should
happen to pass by. I started sucking him and I guess he enjoyed it a lot,
because I didnt have much time to be proud of my achievement before
he came in my mouth. I saw him fumbling inside his pants pockets and realized
he was trying to offer me a tissue. Obviously I couldnt talk with
my mouth full so I just shook my head and gulped it down before he could
say anything. THAT was a huge adrenaline rush for me and I guess that
my panties were wetter than ever before in my life. He just had this what
the *!#? has just happened to me expression on his face and I was
pretty sure that I could detect a lot of gratitude too.
I was going to unzip my skirt at that point and put his shaky hand on
my pussy but froze at the sound of someone approaching our classroom.
We both jumped up, I was wiping my mouth and buttoning my blouse. He frantically
tried to stuff his still erect dick back in and zip up when the person
outside stopped exactly in front of the classrooms door. A second later
it opened and the three of us were staring at each other. Realizing that
it was just the janitor I greeted him with an awkward smile and slung
my bag over my shoulder. I grabbed a book and handed it to my boyfriend
probably saying something stupid like I need to have that back by
Friday, ok? Then we quickly left, hearts pounding. Im pretty
sure there was a only second, at most, between my boyfriend stuffing his
dick in his pants and the janitor entering. To this day this finale
puts a smile on my face but I still dont dare think what might have
happened had we been just a little slower and our parents and teachers
had known what we were doing after school
The second episode Id
like to share is no less daring: ...continued at my homepage at www.chicktrainer.com
Question from HiGuy99: I have always wanted to be
deep-throated, but so far have not found a woman who could (or would)
do it. What are your experiences with deep-throating? What is the biggest
dick you have taken?
A: I love to deepthroat cock. It always makes the guy crazy when he
sees his dick disappear into my mouth. But quite frankly, its not
the easiest thing to master. Thats why there will be an extensive
in-depth look at DT in my Sextips & Techniques section.
(Keep your eyes peeled for that, girls and boys!)
Several years ago, at first, I had a hard time swallowing guys dicks,
but when I learned to relax my throat, I found I could take a lot more
than I ever thought. Probably the biggest cock I ever deep throated was
a guy I hardly remember going out with, whose schlong mustve measured
around 10 to 11 inches. I struggled to get more than two thirds of him
in my mouth. It was extremely exhausting, but almost made me cum while
I find the long skinny ones are much easier to get past the old gag-reflex-zone...
but once you get past that, it's home free! The big fat ones are a whole
lot tougher because they "go down" harder! But in the end its
almost always worth it! Lots more in-depth info on deep-throat techniques
at my homepage
by Bryan: How old were you the first time you had anal sex? How often
do you do it now? And why do ass to mouth blowjobs really turn you on?
I was 17 when I tried it. It wasn't my idea, but the guy I was going
out with then was 15 years older than me and seemed to be very experienced
in sexual matters. As I soon found out, he wasn't. I think we've been
together for a month or two and the anal experiment happened a couple
of days before I finally decided that he was a jerk and broke up with
him. Anyway, it happened like that: He asked me one night how often I'd
had anal sex before. I told him that I was a virgin in that regard. So
he frowns and tells me he's "surprised" and wouldn't have thought
I was that "inexperienced". And, he added, he'd show me if I
wanted him to. I thought to myself, well, why not. I'd rather try it with
someone who knows what he's doing instead of some schoolboy who'd be even
more embarrassed than me. Cut to the bedroom, couple of hours later. He
told me he had to be "really hard" for this to work and made
me blow him. He always needed a long time to "get really hard"
and this evening was no exception. After more than half an hour of sucking
his dick he pulled me up from the bedroom floor where I was kneeling and
flipped me onto my stomach. Then he pulled my ass up towards him. I was
of course expecting him to fuck my pussy first, but he went straight for
the back door. I was starting to wonder about lubrication, since even
a normal fuck is usually uncomfortable if there isn't enough secretion
to ease penetration. Before I even finished that thought he became a serious
pain in the butt. And I mean serious! I was biting the pillow and hoping
this was just the entry phase and things would improve. Of course they
didn't. Then the pain stopped and I realized he'd gone soft again. He
was cursing quietly and told me it was my fault, because I was "pushing
him out" all the time. He grabbed my head, spun me around and put
his dick in my mouth. I was disgusted. Eeek, that thing just came out
of my ASS! He pumped my head up and down and told me that he'd give me
another chance to get this over with as soon as he was "really hard"
again. Which took a long time. I salivated like crazy during that second
blowjob since I wasn't going to swallow anything that had previously come
out of my butt! Which kinda made things easier when he spun me around
once again. His cock was now dripping wet and he actually succeeded in
pushing it into my asshole while I was chewing up the pillow. There was
some lubrication but it was far from ideal. One thing I was grateful for
is that he had a small cock. Not tiny, but below average size. So when
he started slamming against my buttocks he couldn't do any damage and
the pain I experienced at first became endurable as I "relaxed".
I reached a state where I became indifferent to what was going on and
decided to wait it out. Fortunately he came after 10 minutes or so and
squirted his load into my ass. I was relieved I wouldn't have to blow
him again. Especially now that his cock had been so deep inside me. He
collapsed ontop of me and asked me if I'd enjoyed my "first time",
as he called it. I said, "no". He rolled off of me and got up
to get dressed. I vaguely remember him saying something brilliant like:
"Hmf, well, I'd had better before. You need quite a lot of practice
if you want my opinion". Well, hmf, I didn't care about his opinion
and told him to leave.
There is a lesson to be learned from this. First of all, anal sex is something
you should try only with someone you really know and trust and who sincerely
cares about you. As paradoxically as this may sound but anal sex is the
most gentle form of intercourse. If you don't start out slowly and communicate
a lot during penetration it's simply not gonna work. If you have A LOT
of experience, you may be secure enough to try it on a one night stand.
But that's a decision you have to make for yourself. The second thing
that needs to be said is that there is NEVER enough lubrication! Lube
up! Lube up! I can't stress this enough. You wouldn't believe how many
couples fail and never try again because they thought a little spit or
a drop of lube would do the trick. It doesn't. Lube up! Then enjoy. It's
a wonderful experience - as long as you don't offer your asshole to some
fucked up dickhead who hasn't the slightest idea what he's supposed to
do, or not.
So, why on earth, you wonder, do I enjoy ass-to-mouth blowjobs today?
To be honest - I don't know. Maybe Freud has some answers. But I don't
consider my sexuality as pathological and anal sex gives me more pleasure
today than ever before. Quite possibly it's the relationship I'm in now,
which makes me feel cared for and respected. And since I'm a sucker for
oral sex the combination of the two makes perfect sense to me at least.
I don't particularly find delight in tasting myself, but the knowledge
that I'm doing the dirty stuff (because I WANT to) gives me that extra
kick now and then. Please go to www.chicktrainer.com for more info and
videos on that topic.
The last question referred to anal-sex frequency. Hmmm, I'd say I have
anal sex twice a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. It happens that
when my pussy is dripping wet (from lots of oral stimulation and intercourse)
my boyfriend manages to pop it in the backdoor without any trouble. I
usually don't object to that. ;-)
Question from Pitt: What can I do as a guy to
change the taste of my cum so that my girlfriend can enjoy a different
A: The one thing that I know is that most cum tastes good as is. If you
are on something like B vitamins, that sometimes can give a strange taste
to the ejaculate. But other than that cum is wonderful, warm and creamy,
a little salty. I personally wouldn't have you change a thing!
One thing I have noticed is that when my boyfriend eats a lot of cinnamon
(which he loves!) his cum tastes a lot sweeter and sometimes has that
cinnamon taste to it. Maybe Im just imagining that. I also think
I can tell, when getting my protein shakes, if the man whose cum I am
swallowing has had Mexican food. I guess this is due to some hot spices
Ive heard other women say that pineapple, dairy products, alcohol,
asparagus and tons of other yummy things tend to influence cum-flavor
one way or the other. Anyway, I dont consider myself an expert on
that matter, but Ill post articles on the message board or in the
Sextips section once Ive found them on the net.
Question from Julie: My boyfriend wants to come
in my mouth cause he wants to know how its like. I've never done this
before and I'm not sure I'll dare to. I just want to know if you can get
to like something like that or if it tastes awful but you just have to
get through it? Do you enjoy it? How does it taste? It doesn't look too
A: Hi Julie, it's always the greatest pleasure for me to receive mails
from female visitors. Thanks for taking the time to drop me a couple of
lines. Here's what I'd suggest: I assume that you're talking about improving
a working relationship with a man you could imagine being a long-time
partner, otherwise your concerns wouldn't have popped up in the first
place, right? I highly recommend asking him direct questions, like what
it is EXACTLY he wants. Does he just want to come somewhere on your face,
right in your mouth or does he want you to really swallow his load? You
should get those details cleared up right away!
If you don't do that you'll both be uncomfortable and disappointed. A
little bug in your sex-life now can have major consequences over time.
If you're embarrassed by talking directly to him about swallowing etc.
just show him my site and read the Sex-tips section together. IF he makes
a comment that interests you in particular, just say something like "...and
you'd like me to do that too, right?" Encourage him to be honest!
I've had couples telling me about how they made their partners watch the
movies and read the tips section with them and how they playfully "imitated"
in real life what they saw on the screen that night.
Swallowing cum is per definition not a very daring act. You just swallow
a teaspoon full of warm liquid. It's going to be salty and it might be
a little bitter. If you are comfortable with your partner I assure you
that it's not going to taste bad at all. Swallowing cum is one of the
most rewarding experiences for men AND women. Men tend to greatly appreciate
girls who do it. And women who dearly love their boyfriend (or have a
serious cumfetish) love the intimacy of the act. Yes, you can get to like
it - even if the first couple of times you do it, it feels strange to
you. Cum is an acquired taste just like let's say grapefruit. I would
never have eaten a grapefruit as a child if I could've had an orange instead
(too bitter, yuck!). But once you grow up a little you find more and more
hidden pleasures to be discovered... Bitter can become mighty interesting.
Do I enjoy it? You bet! I love to swallow my boyfriends cum and he thinks
I'm the queen of the world because of that. And I even had a phase in
my life where I'd swallow the cum of "strangers" whom I wasn't
exactly in love with just because doing it turned me on. Sometimes even
more than having an orgasm myself at the end.
So just give it a try! Keep talking you two! And make him tell you how
much he enjoyed you swallowing his cum after a long blowjob! Trust me
you'll feel good!
Hope this helps and let me know how it went! I'd really like to know if
you enjoyed the experience! Have a great evening!
The next day I got another e-mail from Julie, this
is what she wrote:
Hi, its me Julie. I sent you a e-mail a few days ago asking u about if
I should swallow my boyfriend's load.
I DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wasn't sure, I thought I wasn't gonna like
it, but IT WAS GREAT. Oh baby yeah! I'm sure he liked it 'cause he went
wild and his load was amazingly big.You are right, it turned me on like
I've never felt before. It was just amazing. I gonna do it every day,
the poor guy is gonna go dry.