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Question from Jane: How old were you when you gave your first BJ and did you like it?
Question from Mike: Where was the most exciting place you've ever given head (outside of the bedroom or home)?

A: I think I’ve given my most daring blowjobs at school! I was madly in love with a boy the same age as myself. We were both 13 and still virgins. He was either shy or very respectful and touched my breast only if I asked him to and he only dared put his hands in my pants if I guided them there! So we just had a little petting experience and nothing too serious had happened up to that point.
Then one day I stumbled across some Beta or Video 2000 videotapes in my parent’s bedroom and watched them secretly while they were away. I was fascinated by what I saw and particularly impressed by a woman who deep throated a huge cock and begged the man to let her swallow. It totally turned me on even though I wasn’t really sure why that would be physically appealing to her or him. Anyway, it fuelled my curiosity and I decided to expand my sexual horizon by giving my first blowjob during our next scheduled french-kissing and petting session.
As it turned out this would happen in a classroom. I had very protective parents who wouldn’t let me run around unattended at that age and my boyfriend and I had to do most of the talking and experimenting after school. There was never a lot of time for us and we never experienced the comfort of lying in bed together. Even though we’d been going out for almost two years. Classrooms happened to be the only refuge we could find. So I took out his penis and told him to keep listening for footsteps outside, just in case cleaning personnel or teachers should happen to pass by. I started sucking him and I guess he enjoyed it a lot, because I didn’t have much time to be proud of my achievement before he came in my mouth. I saw him fumbling inside his pants pockets and realized he was trying to offer me a tissue. Obviously I couldn’t talk with my mouth full so I just shook my head and gulped it down before he could say anything. THAT was a huge adrenaline rush for me and I guess that my panties were wetter than ever before in my life. He just had this “what the *!#? has just happened to me” expression on his face and I was pretty sure that I could detect a lot of gratitude too.
I was going to unzip my skirt at that point and put his shaky hand on my pussy but froze at the sound of someone approaching our classroom. We both jumped up, I was wiping my mouth and buttoning my blouse. He frantically tried to stuff his still erect dick back in and zip up when the person outside stopped exactly in front of the classrooms door. A second later it opened and the three of us were staring at each other. Realizing that it was just the janitor I greeted him with an awkward smile and slung my bag over my shoulder. I grabbed a book and handed it to my boyfriend probably saying something stupid like “I need to have that back by Friday, ok?” Then we quickly left, hearts pounding. I’m pretty sure there was a only second, at most, between my boyfriend stuffing his dick in his pants and the janitor entering. To this day this “finale” puts a smile on my face but I still don’t dare think what might have happened had we been just a little slower and our parents and teachers had known what we were doing after school… The second episode I’d like to share is no less daring: ...continued at my homepage at www.chicktrainer.com


Question from HiGuy99: I have always wanted to be deep-throated, but so far have not found a woman who could (or would) do it. What are your experiences with deep-throating? What is the biggest dick you have taken?

A: I love to deepthroat cock. It always makes the guy crazy when he sees his dick disappear into my mouth. But quite frankly, it’s not the easiest thing to master. That’s why there will be an extensive “in-depth” look at DT in my Sextips & Techniques section. (Keep your eyes peeled for that, girls and boys!)
Several years ago, at first, I had a hard time swallowing guy’s dicks, but when I learned to relax my throat, I found I could take a lot more than I ever thought. Probably the biggest cock I ever deep throated was a guy I hardly remember going out with, whose schlong must’ve measured around 10 to 11 inches. I struggled to get more than two thirds of him in my mouth. It was extremely exhausting, but almost made me cum while sucking!
I find the long skinny ones are much easier to get past the old gag-reflex-zone... but once you get past that, it's home free! The big fat ones are a whole lot tougher because they "go down" harder! But in the end it’s almost always worth it! Lots more in-depth info on deep-throat techniques at my homepage

Question submitted by Bryan: How old were you the first time you had anal sex? How often do you do it now? And why do ass to mouth blowjobs really turn you on?
I was 17 when I tried it. It wasn't my idea, but the guy I was going out with then was 15 years older than me and seemed to be very experienced in sexual matters. As I soon found out, he wasn't. I think we've been together for a month or two and the anal experiment happened a couple of days before I finally decided that he was a jerk and broke up with him. Anyway, it happened like that: He asked me one night how often I'd had anal sex before. I told him that I was a virgin in that regard. So he frowns and tells me he's "surprised" and wouldn't have thought I was that "inexperienced". And, he added, he'd show me if I wanted him to. I thought to myself, well, why not. I'd rather try it with someone who knows what he's doing instead of some schoolboy who'd be even more embarrassed than me. Cut to the bedroom, couple of hours later. He told me he had to be "really hard" for this to work and made me blow him. He always needed a long time to "get really hard" and this evening was no exception. After more than half an hour of sucking his dick he pulled me up from the bedroom floor where I was kneeling and flipped me onto my stomach. Then he pulled my ass up towards him. I was of course expecting him to fuck my pussy first, but he went straight for the back door. I was starting to wonder about lubrication, since even a normal fuck is usually uncomfortable if there isn't enough secretion to ease penetration. Before I even finished that thought he became a serious pain in the butt. And I mean serious! I was biting the pillow and hoping this was just the entry phase and things would improve. Of course they didn't. Then the pain stopped and I realized he'd gone soft again. He was cursing quietly and told me it was my fault, because I was "pushing him out" all the time. He grabbed my head, spun me around and put his dick in my mouth. I was disgusted. Eeek, that thing just came out of my ASS! He pumped my head up and down and told me that he'd give me another chance to get this over with as soon as he was "really hard" again. Which took a long time. I salivated like crazy during that second blowjob since I wasn't going to swallow anything that had previously come out of my butt! Which kinda made things easier when he spun me around once again. His cock was now dripping wet and he actually succeeded in pushing it into my asshole while I was chewing up the pillow. There was some lubrication but it was far from ideal. One thing I was grateful for is that he had a small cock. Not tiny, but below average size. So when he started slamming against my buttocks he couldn't do any damage and the pain I experienced at first became endurable as I "relaxed". I reached a state where I became indifferent to what was going on and decided to wait it out. Fortunately he came after 10 minutes or so and squirted his load into my ass. I was relieved I wouldn't have to blow him again. Especially now that his cock had been so deep inside me. He collapsed ontop of me and asked me if I'd enjoyed my "first time", as he called it. I said, "no". He rolled off of me and got up to get dressed. I vaguely remember him saying something brilliant like: "Hmf, well, I'd had better before. You need quite a lot of practice if you want my opinion". Well, hmf, I didn't care about his opinion and told him to leave.
There is a lesson to be learned from this. First of all, anal sex is something you should try only with someone you really know and trust and who sincerely cares about you. As paradoxically as this may sound but anal sex is the most gentle form of intercourse. If you don't start out slowly and communicate a lot during penetration it's simply not gonna work. If you have A LOT of experience, you may be secure enough to try it on a one night stand. But that's a decision you have to make for yourself. The second thing that needs to be said is that there is NEVER enough lubrication! Lube up! Lube up! I can't stress this enough. You wouldn't believe how many couples fail and never try again because they thought a little spit or a drop of lube would do the trick. It doesn't. Lube up! Then enjoy. It's a wonderful experience - as long as you don't offer your asshole to some fucked up dickhead who hasn't the slightest idea what he's supposed to do, or not.
So, why on earth, you wonder, do I enjoy ass-to-mouth blowjobs today? To be honest - I don't know. Maybe Freud has some answers. But I don't consider my sexuality as pathological and anal sex gives me more pleasure today than ever before. Quite possibly it's the relationship I'm in now, which makes me feel cared for and respected. And since I'm a sucker for oral sex the combination of the two makes perfect sense to me at least. I don't particularly find delight in tasting myself, but the knowledge that I'm doing the dirty stuff (because I WANT to) gives me that extra kick now and then. Please go to www.chicktrainer.com for more info and videos on that topic.
The last question referred to anal-sex frequency. Hmmm, I'd say I have anal sex twice a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. It happens that when my pussy is dripping wet (from lots of oral stimulation and intercourse) my boyfriend manages to pop it in the backdoor without any trouble. I usually don't object to that. ;-)

Question from Pitt: What can I do as a guy to change the taste of my cum so that my girlfriend can enjoy a different flavor?

A: The one thing that I know is that most cum tastes good as is. If you are on something like B vitamins, that sometimes can give a strange taste to the ejaculate. But other than that cum is wonderful, warm and creamy, a little salty. I personally wouldn't have you change a thing!
One thing I have noticed is that when my boyfriend eats a lot of cinnamon (which he loves!) his cum tastes a lot sweeter and sometimes has that cinnamon taste to it. Maybe I’m just imagining that. I also think I can tell, when getting my protein shakes, if the man whose cum I am swallowing has had Mexican food. I guess this is due to some hot spices… I’ve heard other women say that pineapple, dairy products, alcohol, asparagus and tons of other yummy things tend to influence cum-flavor one way or the other. Anyway, I don’t consider myself an expert on that matter, but I’ll post articles on the message board or in the Sextips section once I’ve found them on the net.

Question from Julie: My boyfriend wants to come in my mouth cause he wants to know how its like. I've never done this before and I'm not sure I'll dare to. I just want to know if you can get to like something like that or if it tastes awful but you just have to get through it? Do you enjoy it? How does it taste? It doesn't look too good.

A: Hi Julie, it's always the greatest pleasure for me to receive mails from female visitors. Thanks for taking the time to drop me a couple of lines. Here's what I'd suggest: I assume that you're talking about improving a working relationship with a man you could imagine being a long-time partner, otherwise your concerns wouldn't have popped up in the first place, right? I highly recommend asking him direct questions, like what it is EXACTLY he wants. Does he just want to come somewhere on your face, right in your mouth or does he want you to really swallow his load? You should get those details cleared up right away!
If you don't do that you'll both be uncomfortable and disappointed. A little bug in your sex-life now can have major consequences over time. If you're embarrassed by talking directly to him about swallowing etc. just show him my site and read the Sex-tips section together. IF he makes a comment that interests you in particular, just say something like "...and you'd like me to do that too, right?" Encourage him to be honest! I've had couples telling me about how they made their partners watch the movies and read the tips section with them and how they playfully "imitated" in real life what they saw on the screen that night.
Swallowing cum is per definition not a very daring act. You just swallow a teaspoon full of warm liquid. It's going to be salty and it might be a little bitter. If you are comfortable with your partner I assure you that it's not going to taste bad at all. Swallowing cum is one of the most rewarding experiences for men AND women. Men tend to greatly appreciate girls who do it. And women who dearly love their boyfriend (or have a serious cumfetish) love the intimacy of the act. Yes, you can get to like it - even if the first couple of times you do it, it feels strange to you. Cum is an acquired taste just like let's say grapefruit. I would never have eaten a grapefruit as a child if I could've had an orange instead (too bitter, yuck!). But once you grow up a little you find more and more hidden pleasures to be discovered... Bitter can become mighty interesting.
Do I enjoy it? You bet! I love to swallow my boyfriends cum and he thinks I'm the queen of the world because of that. And I even had a phase in my life where I'd swallow the cum of "strangers" whom I wasn't exactly in love with just because doing it turned me on. Sometimes even more than having an orgasm myself at the end.
So just give it a try! Keep talking you two! And make him tell you how much he enjoyed you swallowing his cum after a long blowjob! Trust me you'll feel good!
Hope this helps and let me know how it went! I'd really like to know if you enjoyed the experience! Have a great evening!
The next day I got another e-mail from Julie, this is what she wrote:
Hi, its me Julie. I sent you a e-mail a few days ago asking u about if I should swallow my boyfriend's load.
I DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wasn't sure, I thought I wasn't gonna like it, but IT WAS GREAT. Oh baby yeah! I'm sure he liked it 'cause he went wild and his load was amazingly big.You are right, it turned me on like I've never felt before. It was just amazing. I gonna do it every day, the poor guy is gonna go dry.